Private Sex & Intimacy Coaching for Women

For women navigating big life transitions, stress, or a quiet loss of desire—this is a discreet space to reconnect with your pleasure, restore your confidence, and reorient your relationships around what truly turns you on.

By application only. Limited 1:1 spaces available.

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Natassia Miller

“Working with Natassia has given us space to experiment, feel safe, and play sensually with each other. It feels deeply nourishing to be known in this way, and it has become the foundation for a stronger sexual and intimate connection.”

Julie K.
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“For the first time in years, I actually want to have sex. Not because I feel pressured, but because I feel connected and turned on. This work helped me understand my desire in a completely new way."

tracy R.
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"We used to avoid talking about sex because it always led to tension. Now we can talk about it openly, even playfully. That shift has changed everything.”

Dina g.
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“Working with Natassia has given us space to experiment, feel safe, and play sensually with each other. It feels deeply nourishing to be known in this way, and it has become the foundation for a stronger sexual and intimate connection.”

julie k.
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“For the first time in years, I actually want to have sex. Not because I feel pressured, but because I feel connected and turned on. This work helped me understand my desire in a completely new way."

tracy R.
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"We used to avoid talking about sex because it always led to tension. Now we can talk about it openly, even playfully. That shift has changed everything.”

todd g.
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Natassia Miller

You’re a high-functioning woman who feels like something's missing in your erotic life.

You might:

  • Feel more like roommates, co-parents, or colleagues than lovers with your partner.
  • Catch yourself avoiding sex, saying yes out of obligation, or staying in your head instead of your body.
  • Be moving through a transition (new relationship, breakup/divorce, new baby, career shift, peri/menopause) that has changed what you want and how you feel in your body.
  • Feel confident professionally, but unsure, self-critical, or checked out when it comes to intimacy and being seen.
  • Sense that you’re meant to experience more pleasure, depth, and ease than what you’re currently living.

This coaching is designed for women who are growth-oriented and ready to invest in feeling deeply connected—inside and outside the bedroom.

You don't have to navigate this alone.

As a Brazilian-American sexologist certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT), this work sits at the intersection of evidence-based care, sensuality, and real life.

I guide women through motherhood, perimenopause, menopause, and long-term partnership, helping them reclaim desire and create intimacy that feels nourishing, honest, and exciting again.

A graduate of Columbia University, my work has been featured in Newsweek, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, GQ, Goop, NBC and more.

What drives this practice is witnessing what happens when women truly own their pleasure—because that confidence reshapes the bedroom, the relationship, and the rest of their lives.

Natassia Miller
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How This Works

1. Apply for Private Coaching

The application ensures that the fit, timing, and level of support are right for both of us. If it feels aligned, you’ll be invited to a consultation call to explore next steps.

2. High-Touch 1:1 Coaching

Private sessions with personalized practices between calls, voice-note support, and curated resources.

3. Confidentiality and Care

My clients are high-functioning, often in demanding careers or caregiving roles, and come here precisely because there are so few spaces where they can be fully honest about their erotic lives.

By the end of our work together, clients describe:

  • Feeling at home in their bodies, less self-conscious, and more easily aroused and responsive.
  • Enjoying sex they actually look forward to.
  • Greater emotional and erotic intimacy with their partners, with less resentment and more repair.
  • Clearer boundaries, more honest communication, and a felt sense of being cherished, not just needed.
  • A relationship to pleasure that spills into work, creativity, parenting, and how they move through the world.
Natassia Miller

“It feels like I've gotten my marriage back. After 9 months of no sex and feeling completely disconnected, we are now talking, touching and rediscovering each other in ways we never thought possible."

kate m.
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"Menopause changed how my body responded to everything, and I thought desire was just gone. But you helped me find new ways to experience pleasure and reminded me that it’s never too late to feel sexy and alive."

jules l.
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"After having a baby, I didn’t feel like myself, let alone a sexual being. These sessions gave me permission to reconnect with my body, without pressure. I feel more grounded, more open, and more me in this new phase."

hillary N.
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“It feels like I've gotten my marriage back. After 9 months of no sex and feeling completely disconnected, we are now talking, touching and rediscovering each other in ways we never thought possible."

Kate m.
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"Menopause changed how my body responded to everything, and I thought desire was just gone. But you helped me find new ways to experience pleasure and reminded me that it’s never too late to feel sexy and alive."

Jules l.
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"After having a baby, I didn’t feel like myself, let alone a sexual being. These sessions gave me permission to reconnect with my body, without pressure. I feel more grounded, more open, and more me in this new phase."

hillary g.
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Apply for Private Coaching

Private coaching is offered by application to ensure that the fit, timing, and level of support are right for both of us. If it feels aligned, you’ll be invited to a consultation call to explore next steps.