talk about sex without the awkwardness
Turn the conversation you've been avoiding into the best date night you've had in years with our Intimacy Card Deck.
Intimacy Card Deck for Couples
"Have to tell you that I played this game last night and it was absolutely incredible." — Taylor C.
Talking about sex is hard—even with someone you love. Maybe you don't know how to bring it up. Maybe you don't have the words for what you want.
I see this every day in my work as a sexologist: couples who love each other but can't find the door into the conversation.
So I designed this deck to make the hard part not only easy, but actually exciting.
The card asks the question—not you. There's no awkward setup, no "we need to talk." Just pull a card, read it out loud, and let it guide the conversation somewhere you've been wanting to go.
Level 1 starts with romantic questions about your relationship—the kind that make you remember why you chose each other.
Level 2 is where it gets seriously spicy. You decide when you're ready.
Perfect for date nights, deeper conversations, and playful foreplay.
- 2 levels of 69 cards each with question and action prompts.
- Easy to use, pressure-free, and designed for all couples.
- Beautiful enough to leave on your coffee table, bold enough to change your nights together.
- Created by Sexologist Natassia Miller.
“I was literally BLOWN AWAY! We had so much fun and it provided the novelty we needed.”
“The questions are sexy and thought-provoking. They make you think about your relationship in a lot of different ways. We've loved every minute of playing it!”
“Made us both discover new things about each other despite the fact we’ve been together for nearly 30 years. It was well worth it!”
Why couples keep coming back to this deck
The card asks the question first, which makes it easier to bring up desires, fantasies, boundaries, and needs without pressure or awkwardness.
Use it to create more emotional intimacy, more honest communication, and more chemistry in your everyday relationship.
Instead of defaulting to dinner or Netflix, you get a simple ritual that invites curiosity, novelty, and play.
Approved by sex EXPERTS
"This is a wonderful deck to enhance intimacy, emotionally and sexually, with new or long-term partners. The questions offer gentle topics and fodder for deeper conversation."
Sex Therapist
"As a therapist, I can say this for certain: you can do all the therapy you want, but eventually you have to talk to your partner, too. The Mindful Intimacy Deck provides the vocabulary to do just that."
THERAPIST
"Mindful Intimacy is the card deck I recommend most often to my intimacy coaching clients. It strikes the perfect balance between playful and deep, emotional and physical."
Intimacy Coach
HI, I’M NATASSIA — SEXOLOGIST & founder of WONDERLUST
After years of working with couples, I noticed the same pattern: people want to talk about sex, desire, and intimacy — they just don’t always know how to start.
That’s why I created the Wonderlust Intimacy Card Deck: to make those conversations feel easier, more playful, and less loaded.
Talking about sex isn’t just helpful — it’s powerful. Research and real-life experience both show that couples who communicate more openly about sex often experience greater satisfaction, stronger desire, and a deeper sense of connection.
What means the most to me is hearing from couples in every stage of their relationship that this deck helped unlock something they didn’t even realize was missing.
That’s exactly what it was made for.
FREQUENTLY asked QUESTIONS
It's for all kinds of couples. Prompts are non-gendered, and LGBTQ+ friendly.
While we created it with longer-term couples in mind, new couples and those who are dating have shared with us that they've loved it too.
Talking about sex, after all, matters at any stage!
There are 2 levels of 69 cards each - 138 cards total.
It's the card that asks the question, not you, which makes it an easy experience for couples to talk about their relationship and sex life.
Level 1 is thoughtful and romantic to warm things up. Level 2 is seriously spicy.
Start with Level 1 and when you feel comfortable, move onto Level 2.
Keep going until you can't keep your hands off each other.
Level 1 is thoughtful and romantic. Warm things up with prompts that remind you of what drew you together.
Level 2 is spicy. Learn more about each other's desires, explore new possibilities in bed and build confidence asking for what you want.
Each level contains 69 cards each.
It helps you talk about sex in a tasteful manner. Other intimacy decks tend to have very few prompts, if any, that are centered on sex. We dedicate an entire Level of 69 cards to it.
It has the best of both worlds combining relationship and sex life prompts.
Plus, it's beautifully designed featuring artwork by Brazilian artist Nathalie Edenburg to elevate your experience and decorate the home.
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If you have any additional questions, please e-mail us at hi@wonderlust.co