Need a little more?
Need a little more?
learn how your SEXUAL DESIRE WORKS AND HOW YOU CAN EXPERIENCE MORE OF IT.
This foundational, self-paced course will teach you how to ignite your desire and build a more pleasurable sex life that excites you.
“After our son was born 4 years ago, my connection with my husband felt like it was on pause. This course gave us the tools and insights to reconnect both emotionally and sexually. I feel like we've found each other all over again, with even deeper bonds in this new phase of our life.”
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"I was skeptical at first, but my wife encouraged me to give this course a try. I'm glad I did. We have different desire styles (she's the spontaneous one) and for the first time in 15 years, we've been able to bridge that gap and enjoy sex more thanks to the strategies we learned."
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"At 65, this course has opened my eyes in ways I couldn't have imagined. I only wish I had learned this 40 years ago. I'm excited to put these in action with my husband as we reconnect in the bedroom."
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Do you struggle to get in the mood for sex?
Feeling frustrated or ashamed about a lack of sexual desire is the most common reason people reach out to me.
Truth is, everyone has a different desire style. There is no “better” or “right” way to get in the mood.
What matters is understanding how your own sexual desire works, so that you can structure your life accordingly and experience more pleasure.
That’s why I created this foundational course. Identify what prevents you from connecting with your desire and learn how to build the sex life you want.
The great news? You can create the change you want in a way that feels sustainable and aligned with you.
what you'll learn
What’s in each module
What people are saying
"This is the sex ed I never had. I’ve been on this journey to learn more about sex and Natassia makes it very easy and approachable to understand. It's helped me explore my sexuality in a safe, positive way, boosting my confidence and connections with others. This knowledge is empowering and something everyone should learn."
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"I’ve been in a high demanding role at work for a couple of years and it took a big toll on my libido. What I love about this course is that it normalizes my experience and has a step by step process with questions I never thought to ask myself. Plus, I’m excited to apply what I’ve learned about communication and sensual exercises with a future sexual partner!”
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“After 20 years of marriage, my husband and I felt like we were in a rut. I wish I had taken this course when we got married because it would’ve saved us so much time and frustration. We’re doing the exercises to reconnect and in a short period of time it’s already been transformative for our connection and communication!”
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HI, I’m Natassia Miller —sexologist and founder of Wonderlust
For the last five years, I've been researching what it takes to build a genuinely happy and fulfilling sex life and marriage.
It's a common source of struggle, after all. About 50% of American couples report being unhappy with their sex lives and 50% of marriages end in divorce.
So I founded Wonderlust in 2022 with our viral intimacy card deck that makes it easy for couples to talk about sex. Since then, we've grown to over 230K followers across social media and a live sexual wellness event series at Soho House.
We’re on the path to building a library of accessible courses for you to design the sex life and relationship you want. I'm excited to guide you on your journey!
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FAQ's
Both men and women who experience a lack of sexual desire and want to improve their sex lives.
To keep this course scientifically accurate, it is not for trans people.
If you’re looking for medical advice, this course is not for you either. You should consult your medical provider.
Yes, it’s a great opportunity for you to learn how sexual desire works, which misconceptions you hold, and how to create change together. While you can’t force your partner to do the exercises, you will be equipped to ask them better questions and navigate this more successfully.
No. This course is for anyone who either struggles with desire or wants to learn more, regardless of their relationship status. The exercises can be done both with a sexual partner or on your own.
You can access it via your Kajabi dashboard immediately after you purchase it. It's pre-recorded and you will have lifetime access to it. You can watch it as many times as you want, from the comfort and privacy of your home.