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Explore your sexual desires & deepen your relationship with our therapist-approved Mindful Intimacy Deck


Over 5,000 Happy Couples

Wow we were blown away. Every card prompted a discussion on a topic that we had been struggling with. It was magical.

Daniel C.

My partner and myself got this to learn more about each other and have some fun. We learned more about ourselves and our relationship than I could have ever imagined.

Breana S.

So we were on the verge of divorce when I got this deck. It sparked the conversations we needed to reconnect and get to know each other in a way we never thought possible.

John Q.

Why Couples Love It

Awkward Talks Made Easy

Tastefully curated prompts guide conversations around your relationship and sex life.

Perfect for Date Nights

Enjoy quality time together as you set your phones aside to be present and focus on each other.

Therapist Approved

Based on couples therapy principles, therapists love how effective and fun it makes for couples to connect.

Read their reviews here.

Beautifully Designed

Featuring exclusive erotic artwork by Brazilian artist Nathalie Edenburg, it doubles as table art.

Over 20 Million Views & 2 Million Likes on TikTok

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Mindful Intimacy Deck

Mindful Intimacy is a tool for couples to talk about sex, explore new possibilities in bed and deepen their connection.


Based on couples therapy principles, there are two levels of 69 cards each with prompts to strengthen your emotional, physical and sexual intimacy.

  • 138 prompts with questions and actions
  • For all couples and LGBTQ+ friendly
  • Therapist approved
  • Exclusively designed to decorate the home
  • Box size: 2.75"H x 5.4"W x 5"D / weight: 1.25 lbs


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Loved By Sex Therapists & Coaches

“As a therapist, I can say this for certain: you can do all the therapy you want, but eventually you have to talk to your partner, too. The Mindful Intimacy Deck provides the vocabulary to do just that.”

Mike Rosen, M.S.Ed.

"This is a wonderful deck to enhance intimacy, emotionally and sexually, with new or long-term partners. The artwork is fantastic, so erotic and inclusive. The questions offer gentle topics and fodder for deeper conversation"

Dr. Kate Balestrieri,

Modern Intimacy

“Mindful Intimacy is the card deck I recommend most often to my intimacy coaching clients. It strikes the perfect balance between playful and deep, emotional and physical.”

Rena Martine,

Intimacy Coach


Two Levels

69 Cards Each - 138 Total

Level 1: Start with the Basics

  • Thoughtful, romantic prompts

  • Based on the couples therapy principle of starting with what drew you together and strengthening trust.

  • Example prompts: “What do you like most about our relationship?” and “Play a song that reminds you of us, and let’s dance to it together.”

Level 2: Spice Things Up

  • Dig deeper with sexual prompts

  • Explore new possibilities in bed & build confidence asking for what you want

  • Example prompts include “What turns you on the most when I go down on you? Is there anything you want me to do differently?” and “Kiss my neck the way you would want to be kissed.”

Intimacy Prompt of the Day

You can also pick a different card each day to inspire conversations and actions that build a deeper connection on the daily.

A note from our founder

The best relationships are founded on strong communication. Yet when it comes to intimacy and sex, so many questions go unasked.

It's a complicated journey that can feel lonely and overwhelming. Many of us don't know where to look for help, are too embarrassed to ask and have a tough time talking to our partners about it.

I founded Wonderlust to help couples navigate the different stages of a relationship's intimacy. We build quality tools rooted in science that deepen connection through design, starting with our Mindful Intimacy Deck.

I'm so happy you're here and invite you to join our community as we guide you on your journey towards better intimacy.

— Natassia Miller, Founder & CEO


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